But You Gotta A Girlfriend Part Two:

So I just had to tell another sista…no.

No to going out tonight. Why? Because while she’s single, she’s not single if you know what I mean. Another one of these, “she’s not my girlfriend, but she’s not out of my life” type of sistas.

I had to explain that being the single person that I am. If I am going to make the effort to go on a non-related work activity on a Friday night, it needs to be with someone who if we drink too much and start feeling each other—is very single and able to mingle.

I don’t think she was feeling my answer.

These days I have to be true to me. She’s on my list of people to go out with in a group setting, if you know what I mean.


The Court of Public Opinion

  • Rox

    I think I know what you mean!!

  • Jorjie

    I know what you mean. Its just another form of game playing. Dont play their games, because all you will win is drama and potential heat break. Theres way too many ‘single ‘ people out there. Just have fun stick to your guns.