So I just had to tell another sista…no.

No to going out tonight. Why? Because while she’s single, she’s not single if you know what I mean. Another one of these, “she’s not my girlfriend, but she’s not out of my life” type of sistas.

I had to explain that being the single person that I am. If I am going to make the effort to go on a non-related work activity on a Friday night, it needs to be with someone who if we drink too much and start feeling each other—is very single and able to mingle.

I don’t think she was feeling my answer.

These days I have to be true to me. She’s on my list of people to go out with in a group setting, if you know what I mean.