One of my favorite movies is Elizabeth.  I mean I can watch this movie over and over, and sometimes I do, lol. Anyway, above is my favorite line in the entire film which pretty much sums up how I feel these days about the idea that as an adult in your 30s, you have to be in a relationship or you have to get married.  You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do and it doesn’t make you any less of a person.  After my last encounter, I can safely say these days, I am content to focus on my myself, family, friends, and my work.  Elizabeth transformed herself into the Virgin Queen and I’m now the Virgin Lesbian.

“Observe (insert name here), I am married…to my work!”