R&B music is having a banner year for more reasons than one. Of course there were the much anticipated releases from Jill Scott, Angie Stone, Eric Roberson, and now Alicia Keys. But along with the good music came the admission from R&B singer Donnie just days after the release of his sophomore album The Daily News (Soulthought Records) this year, that he was gay. And maybe it’s because I’ve been soooo busy these past few weeks, but I missed the long awaited coming out of R&B’s Rahsaan Patterson. Now Rahsaan being gay is not news to me, but him coming out publicly is.
On October 7, 2007, just several days after the release of his latest album Wine & Spirits, in an exclusive interview with BETJ.com’s John Murph, Rahsaan followed fellow R&B singer Donnie’s lead and broke his silence about not only his sexuality but his thoughts on homophobia. Congrats Rahsaan!
Here’s an excerpt:
BET J: Are you dealing with your sexuality?
Patterson: Exactly. When your body is fringed upon and you
had no say so in the matter, the years that follow have nothing to do with who
you initially could have been or would be.
Personally, I believe when that happens to you – a spirit attaches itself to
you then you reside in a world where you have this stigma on you. When you’re a
child, you don’t know what the hell is going on. Then you grow up with all
these issues and with all these people who put these issues on you; and block
you mentally from obtaining who you really could be. It’s an issue as Black
people that we really don’t like to deal with; it’s an issue that a lot of gay
people don’t want to break down.
Some people believe that they were born that way. But I’m not the person who
feels like they have to justify myself or my beliefs to have people applaud me
or buy my records. I’m very well aware of people’s opinions about me.
Some people are right; some people are wrong. But that does not define who I
am. That is not all of who I am. It’s really redundant and tired at this
BET J: Do you think that the R&B is as homophobic as the press
makes it out to be? Or is it the press and record companies that are actually
the more homophobic?
Patterson: When you come out as openly gay in the music
world, you become, “Oh that’s they gay artist.” What is that about? It’s a
cheap shot. Personally, I feel that it’s degrading and disrespectful, because
it lessens the power of who an individual is. It’s unfortunate that we need
labels – you got to be Jewish or you got to be whatever the label is.
BET J: So you don’t think identifying oneself as openly gay gives a
sense of empowerment?
Patterson: It does. I remember talking to Meshell
Ndegeocello and she told me that her record label took it upon itself to market
her as the “bi-sexual R&B artist.” It wasn’t about her denying it or hiding
it; her sexuality was what it was. Someone’s sexuality doesn’t have to be a
I realize that people need a leader who stands for something they believe
in. I get that. I just don’t choose to be that leader. If I’m
going to lead anything, I’m going to lead in way that’s going to bring us to a
higher place of existence and really acknowledge how powerful we really are,
and how limiting those labels can be. I’m
just tired of people having issues with my sexuality.
My struggle has been to come to a point of clarification in which I can sit
and articulate it and fully be conscious of how I feel about it as opposed to
someone trying to catch me off guard and asking me.
BET J: Do you feel that a lot of people want you to be the gay
poster child for R&B.
Some do. And to be honest, I’m the poster child already for a whole lot of
people and for a whole lot of sh*t. I want to be the poster child for freedom
and for someone who is cool with themselves and who doesn’t need someone else
to agree or applaud. I think it shows in my music.
Particularly in the Black community, hang-ups on sexuality is retarded to
me, like when you have one-on-one conversations with some people and everything
is cool, but when you add four more people in the mix, sh*t changes.
People start retreating, fronting, and changing their swagger, lowering their
voices. I ain’t got time for that.
Meanwhile, About.com’s Lesbian Life editor Kathy Belge, raises questions about rapper Queen Latifah’s sexual orientation.
Here’s an excerpt:
I have a friend who insists Queen Latifah is a lesbian. She
says she saw her in an airport, having an argument with a female companion. She
says the only way to describe this spat was as a lover’s quarrel. She didn’t
say that she heard anything in particular that made her draw that conclusion,
just the tone of voice. I’m sure you’ve had an argument with your lover when
you’re traveling. It’s a stressful time. And chances are your tone, body
language and attitude are different than if you were fighting with a co-worker
or your mom. Anyway, that’s what my friend says. But is is true? Is Queen Latifah a lesbian?
Good question! Is Queen Latifah a lesbian? The short answer
is, we just don’t know. Certainly rumors have been circulating around the Queen
for years. Perhaps they started with her convincing role as Cleo in the movie Set
it Off. Some have tied her romantically to her personal trainer. But when
it comes to someone’s sexuality, no one can really know unless the person in
question talks. So, what does Queen Latifah say when she’s asked if she is
lesbian or not?
In an interview in Ebony magazine in 2007, she said, "No comment
on that at all. I’m done commenting on all that…It’s ridiculous. I know me
and that’s all I need to know."
In an interview with People magazine in November 2007 Queen Latifah
said, "My private life is my private life. Whomever I might be with, I
don’t feel the need to share it.
I don’t think I ever will."
But she also says in the same interview, "I feel more comfortable with
myself–my sexuality, my mentality and my viewpoint."
Some, like blogger Jasmyne Cannick insist that if she were
straight, she would just say so. "…most people who are heterosexual when
asked about being gay will emphatically set the record straight. And they’ll
straight up say, I’m straight," Cannick says. She continues, " To be
even more blunt, it’s usually not in heterosexuals nature to be so evasive
about being straight. No, that’s usually reserved for those of us in the closet
or those of us that aren’t completely comfortable with talking about our gay
sexuality. So that alone would make Latifah suspect in my eyes if I didn’t know
any better already."
So is Queen Latifah a lesbian? Perhaps one day we will find out. But for
now, we’re left to wonder about her along with other evasive question answerers
Moennig and Jodi Foster…
In other news, R&B singers Maxwell and Jaheim are said to have projects on the way for 2008…